How To Attract A Perfect Mate!

Have you ever wondered how we attract just one perfect person into our lives out of the billions of people in the world? Is it by accident?

I don’t think it is an accident and I believe that the "Law of Attraction" comes into play. You’ve probably heard the saying, "To attract a perfect mate, you have to be a perfect mate". How true that saying is. If you don’t love yourself and value everything you do and have, then how can you attract a like-minded person?

The human body is like a high powered electrical instrument sending vibrations out into the universe. Everything we do like see, hear, smell, taste and touch throws off a vibration, because our bodies are in a constant state of motion.

Have you noticed that when you meet someone new you either like them straight off or you don’t? The reason you don’t like them is because they’re sending off a negative vibration which does not resonate with your positive vibes. It’s fairly easy to pick up on a person filled with anger. You can usually feel the negativity surrounding them. This is the "Law of Attraction" at work.

Did you know that the perfect mate for you is already here? It’s up to you to get into harmony with that person. What do I mean? Have an image in your mind of what qualities you’d like your mate to have. Do you want someone who is romantic, thoughtful, attentive and respectful to you? You may also want someone who’s attractive, well groomed etc. I think you get the picture!

Napoleon Hill "Think And Grow Rich" said, "The best way to sell yourself to others is first to sell the others to yourself".

In other words reflect on the qualities that you have in order to convey those feelings to others in your search to find the perfect mate.

 

Create A Vacuum To Receive Abundance Into Your Life

Bob Proctor (The Secret) once said, “Nature abhors a vacuum. If you don’t have enough of what you want in your life, you have to make room for it by letting go of the things you no longer need”.

To create abundance and wealth you first have to de-clutter your life, and that means every area. This could be clothes, an old car and even a relationship that’s not working. It can also relate to the way you think and your use of self talk. Instead of saying to yourself, “I can’t” do something, throw that out and change it to “I can”.

Have you got so many clothes in your closet that you can’t even see what’s in there anymore? Have you got clothes which still have the price tags on them and that you’ve never worn? If you’ve said “yes” to either of these questions then you need to start purging NOW!

To attract abundance into your life you have to have a picture in your mind of what you want, write it down or make a vision board, and burn it into your subconscious mind so that it’s all you think of. As Bob Proctor said, “Everything that’s coming into your life you are attracting into your life. And it’s attracted by virtue of the images you’re holding in your mind. It’s what you’re thinking. Whatever is going on in your mind you are attracting to you”.

Stop thinking about how you’re going to pay your bills when you have no money. Instead, think of how you’ll feel once they’re paid off and what you can do with the extra money! You can choose positive thoughts to make the The Law of Attraction work for you, no matter what area of your life you want to change.

 

Jack Canfield

The very first seminar I ever went to was Jack Canfield’s “Self Esteem And Peak Performance” in 1989. My journey on the road to self improvement started there and I’m still learning!

Jack Canfield is an American motivational speaker and author. He is best known as the co-creator of the “Chicken Soup for the Soul” book series. According to USA Today, Canfield and his writing partner, Mark Victor Hansen, were the top-selling authors in the United States in 1997.

Canfield is the founder of “Self Esteem Seminars” in Santa Barbara, and “The Foundation for Self Esteem” in Culver City, California. The stated mission of Self Esteem Seminars is to train entrepreneurs, educators, corporate leaders and employees to achieve their personal and professional goals. The focus of The Foundation for Self Esteem is to train social workers, welfare recipients and human resource professionals.

In 1990, he shared with Hansen his idea for the Chicken Soup for the Soul series. After three years, the two had compiled sixty-eight stories.

Canfield’s book, “The Success Principles” (2005), shares 64 principles that he claims can make people more successful. In 2006, he appeared in the DVD, “The Secret”, and shared his insights on the Law of Attraction and tips for achieving success in personal and professional life.

His newest book is “Key to Living the Law of Attraction” & Companion Gratitude Journal. This book is a simple ‘how to’ guide for using the Law of Attraction to create the life you desire. Within these pages, Canfield clearly explains not only what you need to know, but what you need to do in order to attract what you want in your life.

Jack Canfield has also collaborated with Bob Proctor, another contributor to “The Secret”, to run their successful coaching program “The Science of Getting Rich”. This is where Proctor and Canfield have distinguished themselves… they Understand… they Apply… and they are Masters at Transferring the Science of Getting Rich to others. They are two of the most powerful coaches in the world today.

Read more on “The Science of Getting Rich” and how these two phenomenol men can help change your life forever, by clicking HERE.